Posted in Celebrating the Ancestors, Cemeteries

A Visit to the Graveyards…

November, always a gray month in my mind, lost an hour, but found some rain to contribute to this morning’s gloom. I feel the veil between the physical and ancestral realm is thin at this time, a belief held by ancient celts and modern Mexicans as we honor the families who preceded us in life and death. Personally, I’ve seen this in action: Monday it will be 24 years since my Mom passed over, quietly, unexpectedly, in her sleep. Three (?) days later, her sister followed her, after lying down for a nap. A year later, my legendary Aunt Bernie passed. I honor all of my predecessors with an Ofrenda, but I bring them back throughout the year, too, as I tell their stories.

As I mentioned earlier, my great-grandmother, Christina Kirsch Goodson, for whom I am indirectly named, has been haunting me to visit her family graves. My research easily found the cemeteries of her parents and grandparents, the former in Leavenworth and the latter in Corydon, Indiana. My great-grandfather, Halleck Goodson, was also from the area, but I was a little skeptical that I would find his parents or grandparents.

We got a late start on Monday, but the weather was absolutely perfect. Our first stop was Cedar Hill Cemetery in Corydon, IN to search for the graves of my great- great-great-grandparents, Christian and Elizabeth Rudy.

3x great-grandfather Christian Rudy, was born in Baden-Wurttemberg, Deutschland in 1800. His parents were Johann Christian and Maria Elizabeth. His father died when Christian was eight years old.

Around 1822, 3x great Grandpa Rudy married Susanna Elizabetha Walk and they proceeded to start their family, which grew to include my great-great-grandmother,Caroline Christina, born 1842; I was able to find All of their Baptismal records in Baden, thank-you Lutherans!

In 1849, 49-year-old Christian and Elizabetha, with five of their six children, left Wurttemberg, and traveled to the port city of Havre, France, where they boarded a ship for America, arriving in the Port of New Orleans, Louisiana.  The children on the passenger list of the JH Glidden  are Susanna, 26; Andreas, 18; Christiane, 16; Caroline, 6 (my 2x great-grandmother); Christian (Leonhard), 4.  Christian lists his occupation as Farmer.

From New Orleans, the family set out for Corydon, Harrison County, Indiana, where they settled. One of their daughters, Christiana, married a well-to-do merchant, Leonard Keller, shortly after their arrival. Though the Rudy family moved to nearby Leavenworth several years later, both had moved back to Corydon to live with Christiana before they died, so I knew also keep an eye out for the name Keller.

This is a historic cemetery, beautifully maintained by the city of Corydon, where folks have been buryin’ since 1810.

Sure enough, we were able to find them, their names etched on the back of the Keller obelisk near the front of the park. We’d like to return to use some cleaner on the gravestone, as it is somewhat yellow and turning black, but we’ll have to check the rules.

Next, we went looking for the Everdon-Tower Cemetery where my great-great-grandparents Kirsch are interred. A bit of a ways south of the interstate, we made an abrupt left and drove slowly down this tree-covered road, waiting for the chickens to make their own way to the side.

At the end of the road, you suddenly come into a clearing with some newer graves on the right, but keep going to the turn-around and lo! and behold! an old, well-kept cemetery with my Kirsch grandparents, Nicholas and Rosina? Caroline Kirsch, appears on your left.

Great-great-grandpa Nicholas Kirsch, born in Bodendorf, Rheinland, Prussia, arrived in New York City around 1853, according to his naturalization papers. I’ve had a lot of fun searching passenger lists, but dates and ages are off.  I think he was only 16 when he arrived in 1854.   Later, he claims to be older, which isn’t too surprising.   What I’m sure of is that he somehow made his way to Louisville, Ky and in 1861 he volunteered for the Kentucky 4th Cavalry Regiment where he served as a bugler. I’m super impressed with the role of Buglers..

On November 23, 1864, 2x great grandma and grandpa, Caroline Rudy and Nicholas Kirsch were married in Louisville, Kentucky. While living in Louisville, Caroline gave birth to two sons.

Some time before 1870 2x great-grandparents Nicholas and Caroline Kirsch moved their family to Jennings Township, near Leavenworth, Crawford County, Indiana, where Caroline’s parents, Christian and Elizabeth Rudy, were living.

In the 1880 census, the Kirsches were living in the same place and had expanded to three more sons and two more daughters, including my personal haunt, Christina Caroline, who was born in 1874. Nicholas Kirsch, working as a stonemason, owned the farm where Christina and her siblings grew up.

It is some of the prettiest country you’ll find. The leaf changes were Not at peak, but the sunshine was abundant and the layers of trees covering the rolling hills overlooking the bend of the Ohio River was awesome. (by the way, the other side of that river is Kentucky)

Next up was what had been known as the Old Tower Cemetery, and I was prepared for devastation. It is, as it says, Old, and I expected broken, blackened headstones. I was surprised to find that there are no headstones left at all. There are white plastic dowels stuck in the ground to mark where broken markers were removed, or to make a guess at it. This is an admirable project; I think it’s more respectful to do this than to leave it an unkempt pile of rubble. This is, most likely, where my great-great Grandmother and Grandfather Catherine and Northumberland Goodson were buried.

We added a stroll through an antique store, and munched a good meatloaf plate lunch at The Overlook Restaurant in Leavenworth, to make it an even better daytrip.


My ancestors are already arriving for the Days of the Dead celebrations, but I’m still working on my new LEGO sugar skull decoration (that may take until next year). Dee and I are meeting up for some luncheon and a play at the USI Theatre today, but I’ll pull it all together for All Souls Day.

If you enjoy history and genealogy, you should check out my blog, All My Ancestors.. It needs some (a lot) of editing, but has the bones of my maternal, paternal lines, my husband’s maternal ancestors, and The Sonnystone Saga.

Look out for shades in your neck of the woods (and welcome them!).

Peace

Posted in Sunday Report

Weekly Wrap-Up

It’s been a beautiful week here at the ‘stone! We decided to reschedule our cemetery trip so Casey could work with Jr to bring down one of those menacing pear trees that was fixin’ to fall on his shed. He spent every day doing prep – bringing down branches closer to the ground – and on Saturday they rented one of those cherry-picker-like things and Casey had the time of his life running it.

Meanwhile, out in the garden, the Pineapple Sage, the One We’ve Been Waiting For as we continued to water, Finally Bloomed! It was immediately loved by birds and bugs alike, and signals to me that the garden season is truly fini.

My back porch is a cozy haven for my herbs, keeping them warm as the night-time temperatures plunge. It’s a cozy haven for humans to sit and soak up some sun, as well.


The cemetery trip took a new turn when I discovered some contradictions in my research, making it all the more fun, and seriously changing my perspective of this particular branch of the family tree. Censuses have so much information, changing with each decade,but if you live in the country, it can be difficult to figure out exactly where folks lived since you’re given only the name of the township. The household numbers are in the order that they found someone home to answer their questions, and these 150-year-old records don’t use rural route numbers, either.

It turns out, though, that my Goodson antecedents had the good fortune to live in one of the most scenic areas of Indiana, especially during the fall weather. There is a historical landmark called Schooner Point near their territory that promises breathtaking views of the Big Bend of the Ohio River, so I’ve added some attractions to our little time-travel-trip. Hopefully, we’ll make it this week.

Can you believe we have to change the clocks next week? My body rhythm does not change as easily as a clock! In fact, it rebels at the audacity and sheer carelessness of “losing an hour”… Does anybody really know what time it is? (cue Chicago)

Hope it’s a Good Time in your neck of the woods!

Peace

Posted in Sunday Report

Names and faces

I am an old woman named after my mother…

first line of “Angel from Montgomery” by John Prine

The story was told from the time I could listen that Mom & Dad were so sure that I was a boy that they called me “Charlie” for 9 months and were at a loss for a name when I turned out to be a girl. Dad wanted name me Ruby after Mom, but she didn’t like that name. Her middle name was Christina, so they agreed that was a good moniker. They added the one-syllable “Jo” and voila! I was formally assigned the appellation.

They never called me Christina. Ever. Even when I started school, they instructed the instructors that I was Jo Mayne – sounds like ptomaine, if you want to make fun. Over the years, Mom’s explanation for not using such a pretty name varied. The first answer was that it was too long for my 17-month-older sister to say. Eventually, she confessed that the name was her Grandmother’s and that she didn’t much like her grandmother, and that they called her Teeny and she didn’t like that.

Her grandmother, my great-grandma, was Christina Caroline Kirsch, and she was also named after her mother, Caroline Christina Rudi Kirsch. Both Caroline and her husband, Nicholas, were born in Germany. The community they lived in and raised Christina included many German immigrants who brought their strong work ethic and intelligence to building their new life in Crawford County, Indiana.

Not long before my Mom died, she told me that being a grandmother made her realize that she had misjudged her granny. One big reason she disliked her was because Christina wouldn’t let her run around with her younger cousins, but kept her with her. Mom realized that she’d been shown a side of her grandma that the others didn’t know as she taught her about gardening and cooking.

Since nearly every story from my cousins who knew her related that she was “terrifying”, I guess Mom did see something the others missed. I don’t know if she realized that they also shared a birthday – no doubt why Mom was given her name- but I’m sure Christina knew and gave her special attention.

My brother and sister and I called her “Little Grandma” and I remember seeing her once as a very young child. She lived across the street from my “Big Grandma” and one day when I was playing on the porch, she came up the steps and stopped to look at me before going on in the house. It’s one of those early, hazy memories, but she had a piercing gaze – not quite terrifying, but she was pretty old by then.

I have only one picture of her, sitting on a stool next to her husband, Halleck Goodson, but that picture jumped out of the box at me a couple of months ago and demanded attention. I have done my research and don’t have any new information about her, really, so I wasn’t sure what she was trying to tell me. I think now that she is pointing me to the cemeteries in Crawford County.

Christina Kirsch Goodson, my great-grandmother (I think she looks like me!)

Decades ago, Mom and her sisters did a trip to English, IN, where their Dad’s family had lived and were buried, but nobody seemed to know anything about the Goodsons or Kirsches. I’ve got a lot of information, compiled over at All My Ancestors, and now, Thanks to my ancestor’s nudge, we’re heading up to Leavenworth and Corydon this week to check out the gravestones and get a feel for the area. These are some old ones, so I hope they’re not in too bad of shape.

There’s something missing in Christina’s story – how did she end up with Halleck, a boozing, illiterate, hillbilly 7 years her senior? I hope something clicks as we tour the hills and river bottoms where she raised my Grandma and her siblings.

The Jrs. will be by for some potato soup and apple pie around noon, so I’ve got to move on for now.

We’re blessed with Abundant Sunshine today and forecast for the next week! I hope the sun is shining in your neck of the woods!

Peace

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An Explanation

I apologize for leading you on about posting more often, then abandoning you for over a week. I know you’ve been waiting with bated breath to hear from me. Though I have been busy with visits from friends, doctor and hair appointments, there’s a more diabolical force at work here…

Just as I was planning a new writing routine, I hit a block, my old friend Existential Angst. It’s a side effect of my mortality, sometimes scary and sometimes hopeful, depending on the trigger. When my friend’s mom died at 99, I was chuffed, thinking, yeah, I’ve got 26 years left. When another friend got a grave diagnosis at 75, my brain freaked out with unfounded fear.

One way I cope with the thoughts is at the piano – Beethoven’s Adagio can soothe the savage beast. As for Writing, the only way I can comfortably express these feelings is by putting them in Handwriting, letting the thoughts flow freely through my fingers, a bit the same as tinkling the old ivories. For several years now, I have done a bit of writing, by hand, with a pen, on paper, every morning. I don’t know if I’ll ever share those pages – some of it is good, some is awkward – but all of it is sincere and provides me with clarity to move forward, eventually.

Another way I’ve learned to live with this incurable affliction of anxiety, is to go outside, even if it’s only to sit on the swing. I was already on a crusade to stop mindlessly scrolling, so I’ve been putting the phone away except for texting/calls, and finishing up the garden chores, bringing in the sheaves and such. The weather has been more than fine, so that’s helpful. The last of the dried basil and oregano have been put in jars, and I made some pesto with the last fresh plant. My rosemary is blooming! Mint is enjoying these last warm days, and I still have morning glories and moonflower vining along the trellis.

I also went to the library and got some books – historical fiction, a mystery, and a memoir – and the feel of those in my hands was comforting. I usually read on my Kindle, but put it away in favor of my Nook so I wouldn’t be tempted to jump down any rabbit holes.

Reading is a Great Escape, so in addition to reading novels, I have spent quite a spell perusing blogs from my Word Press reader. There so many Wonderful artists writing real good for free. I am inspired by them and their ability to express their hearts in beautiful words. I’m also a little intimidated! I know we shouldn’t compare or compete, but the blogs I follow are so good that my little paragraphs seem tawdry. Thanks to all of you for putting yourselves out there – I sure needed to read what you wrote.

So that’s where I’ve been. I’m still working on the Ancestry stuff, planning a cemetery trip to Crawford and Harrison Counties, Indiana, in search of the Kirsch, Rudi, and Goodson graves. I have a little more info on my namesake, great-grandmother Christina Kirsch Goodson, but I’m mostly using my imagination! That’s what makes a good story, though, isn’t it?

I won’t promise you that I’ll post more often, but I’m really going to try, so check back!

Peace

Posted in Whimsical Wednesday

High School Reunion

When Luann visited the other day, she asked if I was going to the upcoming reunion.

There’s a Reunion? When? Why wasn’t I invited? I have to giggle at that, because I have no desire to go to a class reunion, but not being given the opportunity to spurn an invite felt insulting.

She explained that she was in a FB group and it dawned on me pretty quickly that I, too, belong to that group. I don’t use fb much at all, just to post this blog and say happy birthday. I do occasionally check up on relatives that I haven’t seen, but I don’t hit the “like” button enough to have much more than a lot of ads on my timeline.

Anyway, apparently the get-together has been in the works since June or so? I had to wade through some obituaries to find the announcement, and just in time! Today is the last day to respond and send my $40 for “heavy hors d’oeuvres” and cash bar at a nearby golf club on 10/10.

My high school years were brutal. My parents had moved me back from California and separated in the middle of freshman year. Mom was abusive and Dad was negligent. As a result, I was a really messed-up kid. My core group of friends from that time (including Luann) were all from grade school and I’m not exaggerating when I say I made no lasting friendships in high school. Several years back, I met up with a couple of acquaintances from those days, and it became clear we had markedly different memories which didn’t include each other.

On the other hand, the folks who plan these things stayed in touch with each other over the years. Many, if not most, still live here in Eville and get together on a regular basis. That is so cool,but I don’t actually know them, and doubt we have much in common. I did attend the 20-year event, even helped on the planning committee, and that was enough for me. Back then, we still had to mail letters and use landlines, and it was cool to see where people ended up; nowadays, a quick search of facebook will serve up photos of nearly everyone.

I’m an introvert whose persona is friendly, even perky, and I can speak in front of groups, run meetings and such, but I’m feeling panic right now thinking about going to this convention of strangers interspersed with a couple of people that I knew once, maybe. I haven’t been missed in 35 years now, so I’ll wager you’ll be fine without me.

Still, there are some folks from those high school days whose company I would enjoy (I think) one-on-one. Are you in town for the party? Send me a message and let’s go to lunch! Do you live here in the tri-state? Send me a message and let’s go to lunch!

I’m looking forward to the pictures of the HHS Class of 1971 55-year Reunion, and you can bet I’ll be zooming in, so use the filters. Y’all are so lucky to have life-long friends. Have a great time!

Peace

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Suddenly Autumn

Just as the weatherman predicted, a sweet cold front pushed our humidity and heat right out of here, arriving just as the sun passed the equator. Very welcome, indeed. We celebrated the arrival of Fall with baked bread, butternut squash, vegetable soup, and a campfire.

My friend, Luann, in town from Portland, Oregon, for her Mom’s funeral service, came by yesterday and we had a wonderful visit. We did not take any pictures, but she brought one along that she’d found amongst her mom’s albums.

I think that’s at least 25 years ago, since I seem to be awfully proud of my mustang. Yeah, we still look like that…

The new theatre season at USI starts today and Dee and I are meeting for lunch and today’s matinee of First Daughter Suite. It’s sure to be a good time.

These Sunday Reports are getting to be more of a chore than actual writing, so I’m making some changes to my writing schedule that will allow for at least two posts a week, and I hope to make it three, so stay tuned!

I’ll be back soon!

Peace

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Seasonal Flux

Summertime here at Sonnystone is always Magical, filled with family, floating, gardening, and relaxing, doing nothing and resting afterward.

There’s a lot to savour in my memories of these past three months, but the Dog Days are still dogging right along and I am ready for this Heat and Humidity to move on. The weatherman says the feels-like-hell-alert will be over at 7pm today, and that temps will be dropping 20degrees tomorrow, so there is hope that we’ll celebrate the Solstice and welcome in the cooler air on Tuesday, thank goodness.

An old high-school friend contacted me Monday to let me know that her Mom had died. The family had been planning her 100th birthday party on the 29th, but she passed on the 13th. As I am wont to do, I’ve spent a fair amount of time Remembering those days and how much I wished that Mrs. O was my mom. I would run away from the anger at my house to hers, where she just emanated loving calmness. Being around her made me feel better, and Lord knows I needed that kind of caring in those days. I was truly Blessed to have known her. I hope I get to see my old friend, too; it’s been a while.

That’s about all to report for now, just doing the usual bird-watching and harvesting. I’ve been spending too much time staring at my phone. I’m not sure when I got this hooked, but it’s really pissing me off. I’m thinking I’ll set some sort of alarm to go off if I stare at it for longer than a certain amount of time. HaHaHa! That won’t stop me. I will just have to put it down, but first I have to decide to…

Hope you’re making good decisions in your neck of the woods.

Peace

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Out of the garden and up the Family Tree

I harvested the last of this year’s edibles this morning…

I need to trim the Peace/Bird Garden, especially after this week’s storms, but we’re still inundated with droves of hummingbirds, so there’s rarely a moment to sneak out and work there. We’ve got another streak of humidity and heat this week, but forecast says we’ll cool off in time for the Equinox, as it should.

With summer chores winding down and Autumn projects still weeks away, I’ve turned back to my genealogy research, compelled by a picture of my maternal great-grandmother and grandfather. While I’ve compiled a tree for Mom’s family, I don’t have access to any records or pictures, only one, taken late in their lives. They were from Crawford County, Indiana, the home of the whitecaps, precursors of the KKK, who were active during the days my greats were younger. I’ve always been afraid that I’d find out one of my ancestors was involved with that kind of hate, and would prefer to not know. Just a perfunctory search of newspapers of the time gave me information that proved that at least one of them was Not…

https://www.newspapers.com/article/the-vincennes-commercial-halleck-needs-t/205817518

Turns out there’s this article from 1889, telling the story of how the whitecaps had pulled a young “wayward” woman from her bed, tied her and her lover to a tree and whipped them with 40 lashes. I should explain that this hate group didn’t just lynch black people, they were “moral police” who did these things to anyone who broke the commandments.

After the whippings, the mob gave a warning to four other men and a woman, telling them the same thing would happen to them if they continued to “cut their capers”. Haven’t heard that phrase, but it seems a little light for a threat. The article also goes on to print an “opposing view”…

Anyway, one of those men who was warned was my great-grandpa Halleck Goodson, and another was my great-great-grandpa, North Goodson. !! I confess to a bit of relief – I had already suspected he was a scoundrel.

That incident happened a year or so before he married, so I’m looking at my great-grandmother’s story with new eyes. There’s plenty of research to be done — my favorite part of genealogy! I’ll let you know when I get that published over on Family Stories.

We’re going to take advantage of this last week of summer to float around the pool. Hope you’re staying cool in your neck of the woods.

Peace

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Another week done gone

We marked the 45th birthday of my boy-child on Thursday, but the poor wee fella just got a bit of cash and a hug. He’s not one for parties, so I don’t feel too negligent. We got a photo, a rare glimpse of him without a hat, and he looks so much like my Dad! Not that he looks old enough to be my dad, but he looks like my Daddy looked in his 40s –you know what I mean…

Both handsome and smart, he’s a true mensch.



Harvest has started with the first gathering of basil and oregano, drying in my hanging rack. Today I’ll cut back another basil to put in water until it’s their turn to dry, and cut back the next oregano to hang instead of drying flat.

It’s dang miserable out there, but I’ve still put off bringing in the whole garden, just because I hate to see the season end. Well, I don’t mind losing this hellish heat and humidity, but cooler temps are a ways off, so it seems premature to put it all away. We’ve had a good season, with dozens of tomatoes, cucumbers, and green beans. The peppers have been slow, and the squash up and died long ago, so I’ve learned a thing or two. Like most gardeners, I’ve already started to plan for next year’s garden, hopeful, as always.

We used to celebrate Michael’s birthday every Labor Day week-end at Ellis Park, but the track has closed before the holiday for several years, so these days we don’t do much. I think I’ll give the Jrs. a call and see if they want to have some brunch tomorrow.

Hope you’re enjoying the holiday in your neck of the woods!

Peace

Posted in Weekly Wrap-Up

Sunday Report

The gardens and the gardening is winding down for the season. The Peace/Bird Garden has been looking very scraggly for a while, partly because I leave the blooms until they’re fully pecked by the birds and partly because of the frequent rainstorms. I finally got out this morning and lopped off the really dead stuff and pulled weeds.

It feels fresh out there, now, with plenty of seed heads left.



The Edible garden is closer to closing time, though. I’m just putting off bringing in the tomatoes, giving some small green ones time to grow. There are six peppers very near harvest, but after that, they, too are done.



Instead of going to Disney World this fall, I decided to buy a new refrigerator and stove. Marked #1 off my list this week when I found this lovely icebox on sale. We had to uncover a little filth to get it in its new home, but doesn’t it look dandy?!

I’ve got my eye on a bargain-priced stove, hopefully bringing it home this week. The dust bunnies under the stove might need to be called “dust groundhogs”.

In the meantime, #two grandie and her bf are going to take the old fridge, and possibly the old stove, as well. I like that kind of recycling.



My Dolly crying jag delayed my potting-up the mums, but I decided to just keep everything out on the back porch, the one I hang out in most, so I can enjoy it. I don’t know when 80-years-old started being too young to die, but it is, so I’m pressing on, determined to Enjoy Every Minute that I can, Look for the Positive, and Be Grateful…

I hope you’re enjoying today in your neck of the woods!

Peace